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Part 2: Before Divorce
Considerations Before Filing For Divorce In Oregon
Divorce is one of the biggest stressors in a person’s life and will affect your home, finances and children well into the future. Although it may be difficult to focus on your upcoming divorce, you will be far better off if you take the time and energy to carefully plan for this major event. This section suggests some initial considerations before you file for divorce in Oregon. If you suspect that your spouse will file for divorce against you, then you should take all of the following planning steps, too.
Recognize That Divorce Changes Everything
HOW WILL DIVORCE AFFECT YOUR LIFE?
The first step is to consider and accept how divorce will change you and your family. Between now and the time your Oregon divorce case is final:
- You may need to change where you live and how you manage your household.
- You may need to change where your children live and go to school.
- You may have less money, retirement assets and property.
- You will likely have to change your budgets and spending habits.
- You may see your children less often, or have to parent on your own day-to-day.
- You may have to deal with stress, anger, loneliness and other emotions during this period.
- Your relationships with shared friends or in-laws may change.
On the other hand, divorce can be a beneficial transition, especially as time passes. With the right resources, Oregon legal counsel and attitude, you and your children can be even stronger after divorce.
Read More: Why You Should Get Organized Before You File for Divorce
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"I always felt my specific needs were very well represented and that I could count on David to be a trusted adviser."David remained very level headed and family focused throughout our proceedings. That said, I always felt my specific needs were very well represented and that I could count on David to be a trusted adviser during an otherwise difficult time.- T.M.
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"We would highly recommend the knowledgeable and dedicated law firm of McKinley Irvin to anyone who might be seeking legal services."In our search for a reputable law firm to handle my sister’s divorce case, we explored our options until we found the McKinley Irvin law firm. McKinley Irvin has, through our experience, proven to be compassionate, understanding and patient during the long term process of my sister’s case. Due to her disabilities she needed more than the legalities and McKinley Irvin was able to provide their knowledge as well as the assurance to my sister that her case would be handled in her best interest. We cannot begin to express our gratitude for all that the McKinley Irvin law firm has done for us. We would highly recommend the knowledgeable and dedicated law firm of McKinley Irvin to anyone who might be seeking legal services.- P.M.
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"You all stood by me no matter how trying my case got. I always felt at ease knowing that you were there to guide me through this."I would like to give my sincere appreciation to Jennifer Payseno and staff. You all stood by me no matter how trying my case got. I always felt at ease knowing that you were there to guide me through this most difficult time. Thank you for not only being my attorney but becoming part of our extended family.- M.F.
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